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MEDICAL CENTER UPDATE: To all of you who were concerned yesterday when gale force winds here in Chicago used me as a basketball and dribbled me on the pavement, let me say thank you for caring.  My left shoulder is screwed up but it could have been worse. I’ll fill you in more on Sunday’s blog.  For now, ow!

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This post is dedicated to Mike Farmer.  A proud Irishman- and a big movie buff.  “There was a wild colonial boy, Jack Duggan was his name…”

And sure if the top photograph isn’t the Savoy Cinema in Dublin, Ireland.  And seein’ how today is St. Patrick’s Day, ’tis only right and proper that I be treating you, Dear Readers, to some of the best movies ever made by and about the descendants of the Auld Sod.

So get out the Guinness.  We’re getting this show on the road with a masterpiece by the most Irish of all American directors- John Martin Feeney.

Better known to most of you as John Ford.

And, of course, the movie is The Quiet Man.

I owe my allegiance to this classic to two good men.  A tip of me cap goes to my father, Ben O’Roffe.  (Today everyone is Irish.)  He was the first guy in my life to love this film and he raved about it so much that I saw it when I was just a wee slip of a lass.

But some forty years later, Mike also adored this flick and together we watched it countless times.  We knew the dialogue by heart and would act out all the parts at the drop of a shillelagh.

“Woman of the house!  I’ve brought the brother home to tay!” Mike would bellow when he came home.  (There was no brother in tow and no tea brewing but I knew what he meant.)

If you have never seen this gorgeous tribute to the land and people of Erin Go Bragh, pour yourself a Black and Tan and settle in.  It’s pure Emerald Isle movie magic.

It takes a lot to follow Trooper Thorne but I bet he can be followed by Trouper Foy.

I now present The Seven Little Foys.

It’s the show biz story of vaudeville star Eddie Foy, Sr.  He and his wife had seven kids, and when Mrs. Foy understandably died of exhaustion, he did what any old trouper would do.

He put them in the act.

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One of them grew up to be song and dance man Eddie Foy, Jr.  Here he is as Hinesy in The Pajama Game.

Now just for fun here’s a look at a child-free clip of two old hoofers (one English, one as Irish as Mother Machree)  having a grand old time in The Seven Little Foys.

Now if the old soft shoe is not your style, how about the old one-two?  Here’s a dandy story of World Heavyweight boxing champion- James John “Gentleman Jim” Corbett.

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In a real donnybrook, “Gentleman Jim” defeated fellow Irishman, John L. Sullivan.

Now see Hollywood’s version of the two contenders- and how they resolved their differences out of the ring.

Another Irish-American “gentleman” boxer also turns up in a terrfic movie. He’s Jim Braddock and he’s played by Russell Crowe in Cinderella Man .

Now if you’re getting worn out watching the fighting Irish, how about a real change of pace with Walt Disney’s Darby O’Gill and the Little People?

It’s the quaint story of an old codger who matches wits with a leprechaun- and also helps his daughter meet her match.

(The strapping young love interest is played by staunch Scotsman, Sean Connery, but why quibble?)

I saw this movie when I was nine and have been a James Bond fan ever since.

Take a listen to him singing.

Speaking of singers, why not take a look at THE singer of singers.

Here’s Harry Lillis “Bing” Crosby- Irish on his mother’s side and the pride of Tacoma, Washington- doing his Academy Award-winning turn as Father Chuck O’Malley.

As the trailer pointed out, Barry Fitzgerald and director Leo McCarey also scored Oscars. And fellow Irish-American character actor, Frank McHugh, played Father Timothy  That’s a lot of Blarney for one movie.

But as liberal and understanding as Father O’Malley was, bless him,  he wouldn’t have stood for the malarkey that make up the subject matter of our next two films.

An illegitimate baby and cheating on the lottery.

An unmarried, pregnant daughter who won’t name the father of her child?  Tis a scandal, I’m thinkin.’  But in The Snapper, the shenanigans turn heart-warming.  (After a few trips to the pub.)

Another fabulous ensemble cast is up to no good when an entire Irish town conspires to cash in a dead man’s lottery ticket in Waking Ned Devine.

This movie is just swell.  And a bittersweet send-off to a great actor- another Scotsman playing Irish- Ian Bannen.

My final selection is a real corker.

The Verdict.

And even though it starred Paul Newman, had a screenplay by David Mamet and was directed by Sidney Lumet,  I’m still counting it as an Irish movie.

And a great one.

The action takes place in Boston, and if you’ve never seen it, let me warn you that Archdiocese of Boston is the villain in the piece.  (Not à la Spotlight.  This is a case of medical malpractice- and its coverup- at a Catholic hospital.)

Paul Newman plays Frank Galvin, a washed-up P.I. lawyer.  All he wants to do is drink and settle the damn thing.

But his buddy, Jack Warden, has other ideas.

Dublin’s own Milo O’Shea is a nasty, nasty judge.  And James Mason is the smoothest, oiliest lawyer in town.

If you’ve never seen it, schedule it into your viewing docket.

Well, that’s it for today.

May the road rise up to meet you.  May the wind be always at your back.  May the sun shine warm upon your face, Dear Readers.

Sláinte!

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Spring Ahead

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Founding Father Benjamin Franklin was chock full of good ideas.  But contrary to the legend, he did not invent Daylight Saving Time.

That honor has to go to this guy.

New Zealander George Hudson.

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Modern DST was first proposed by him in 1895.  Hudson, an amateur entomologist, wanted more daylight hours after work so he could collect insects.  In a paper presented to the Wellington Philosophical Society, he suggested a two hour daylight-saving shift.  His idea garnered considerable interest but it wasn’t until after World War II that it really caught on here in North America.

I don’t care who invented it.  Today has to be my FAVORITE day of the year.

I can’t stand it when it’s gloomy and dreary at four o’clock.  Not only is it depressing, but I don’t like to walk around in the dark very much.

I revel in the freedom of bright seven pm skies.

Now exactly what am I going to do with the upcoming gift of light?  I’ve given it tons of thought and I know just what I want to do with those extra hours of daylight.

Dear Readers, I want to play trivia at a bar in my neighborhood.

Don’t scoff.  This is a BIG deal for me.  I’ve really researched it and I think I’m ready to take the plunge.

It won’t be easy, however.  I’m not very comfortable walking into a bar alone for any reason.

Maybe it’s my age.  Maybe it’s because I never drank and saw no reason to ever go into a bar. Maybe it’s because I got married the first time at nineteen and the bar scene just never figured in my social life.

Or maybe it’s because the last time I was in a bar by myself, (Ditka’s two years ago. Waiting for my brother and sister-in-law and her brother and sister-in-law to meet me there for dinner) I had a crummy experience.  I had gotten there early and the hostess wouldn’t seat me and suggested that I wait in the bar.  I picked the very last seat hoping to be inconspicuous as possible.  But to no avail.  I was totally hassled by two out-of-town clowns who pestered me so much that I had to go back and wait for the the family at the host stand.)

Or maybe because I read this book and it made a lasting impression on me.

Who knows?  I just have a going-to-a bar-by myself phobia that has been really hard to whip.

But this is my Spring to beat it.  I’m motivated.

As some of you probably know, I’m a member of the National Trivia Bowl Hall of Fame.

(if you’re really interested in how I got there, please read “Rookie of The Year.“)

Here’s a photo taken in the early 80’s at the University of Colorado’s Glenn Miller Auditorium when I was still competing.

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(That’s Mark Spinnato, yours truly, Harold Ceasar and Mark Boulanger.  Don’t ask what the team name meant.  It was a compilation of all our former team names.  I was “Willie.”)

Testing my mettle against the best trivia guys in the United States was fun and I loved it. But I retired from the field with honors long ago and haven’t done much more than fill in the blanks for friends (“You know….What’s his name?  He was in that war movie.  What was it called, Ellen?”) since iPhones and Wikipedia were invented.

But there’s a bar in my ‘hood that advertises “Trivia Tuesdays” and I have been licking my chops to get in there show the locals how we old timers do it.

But just to be on the safe side, I had my son Nick vet the place.  One night last year, I made him check it out.

Nick strolled in, scoped out the scene, took in the young couples, gay guys and old drunks and quickly turned to me with his report.

“You’ve got no worries, Dude. NOBODY here is going to be interested in you.  You’re good.”

So with those few extra hours of sunlight at the end of day, there is going to be a showdown at the OK Trivia Corral.

There’s a new gunslinger in town.

And her name is Ellen Ross.

And Ben Franklin?

Go fly a kite.

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Lady Byng

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Author’s Note: This post is dedicated to Ray Bourque.

It’s prime hockey season but just in case you don’t recognize the icon pictured above, let me clue you in.  That’s the National Hockey League’s Lady Byng Memorial Trophy.

Marie Evelyn Moreton was the wife of Viscount Byng of Vimy.  Viscount Byng was Governor General of Canada from 1921 until 1925.  His wife, Lady Byng, was an avid hockey fan and it was she who decided to donate it to the NHL.

The National Hockey League presents it each year “to the player adjudged to have exhibited the best type of sportsmanship and gentlemanly conduct combined with a high standard of playing ability.”

In 1925 Lady B. awarded the very first one to Frank Nighbor of the Ottawa Senators.

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Legendary Chicago Blackhawk Stan Mikita won it twice in the 1966-67 and 1967-68.

And Bobby and Brett Hull are the only father-son combination to ever win it.

But in 2001, Colorado Avalanche forward Joe Sakic won it.

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And thereby hangs this tale…

In 1996 when Nick and I moved to Colorado full-time he was sixteen.  Just in time to become a rabid Avalanche fan.

And just in time to watch the Avalanche win the 1996 Stanley Cup.

Team Captain Joe Sakic was named MVP of the playoffs that year and he- along with Hall of Fame Goaltender Patrick Roy- became big sports idols of my hockey-crazy kid.

Timeout: I’m putting Joe Sakic in the penalty box for a minute while we get a good look at Patrick Roy.  The only player in NHL history to win the Conn Smythe Trophy (the award given to the most valuable player in the Stanley Cup playoffs) three times.  He’s also the only one to win it in different decades and the only player to win it for two different teams. His number 33 jersey is retired by both the Canadiens and the Avalanche.  Check out these Top Ten Roy Moments.

(I love #7!)

Timeout is over:  Sakic is back on the ice.

Let’s relive some of Super Joe’s greatest goals. (In two languages, naturellement.)

(Sorry you had to see that, fellow Chicagoans.  But even though I live in a Wirtz building, my hockey loyalties will always remained divided.)

In 2001 the Avs were their usual powerhouse.  And as a special treat, I bought tickets for us to go to an Avalanche/Blackhawks game at the Pepsi Center in Denver.  The plan was made and Mike and I met up with Nick at my favorite hostelry, the Hotel Monaco.

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This was our Denver headquarters because, besides their convenient-to-everything downtown location, they had a wonderful pet policy.  My three Scotties- Andy, Murdoch and Gillis- just loved it there.

I always took the same suite because the dogs knew it and felt right at home

Very important when you’re traveling with a gang of Scotties.

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(Sorry about the quality.  Black dogs are hard to photograph.  But that’s Gillis on the left, Andy in the middle and Murdoch in the beam of sunlight.)

So the afternoon before the game, the Ross Group sauntered up to the reception desk where we were all expecting a big Monaco welcome.

“Hello there, Mrs. Ross.  And Crew,” beamed the desk clerk.  “Welcome back to the Monaco.  It’s so nice to see you all again.”

“It’s nice to be back,” I smiled. “We’re here to see the Avs game tomorrow night.  Is there any way I can arrange for some dog-sitting while we’re at the game?”

“That’s never a problem,” assured the desk clerk.  “Everyone here loves your little guys and I know that we can arrange to check in on them and even walk them if you need us to.  No problem at all. But… there is one tiny problem and I don’t quite know how to ask you this.”

He looked worried.

“What’s the problem?” I asked.

“Well, it’s about your accommodations, actually.  As you may know, when the Avalanche plays a home game, the Monaco is team headquarters.  The coach thinks it’s better for them to relax and get ready for the game here, rather than at their own homes.”

“That sounds reasonable,” I acceded.  “So what’s the problem?’

“You’re one of our best customers and we always like to give you the same suite.  But Joe Sakic always stays in that suite for home games and he wants it, too.  He’s very superstitious and he doesn’t want to mess with his winning streak.”

I hesitated.

Five set of eyes were on me awaiting my decision.

I was really torn.

I didn’t care so much if Mike, Nick and I changed rooms but what about the Scotties?  Did I really want to upset their applecart?  Would they howl for hours in protest at the game change?

Or worse?

And then Nick piped up.

“Come on, Dude.  Take one for the team.”

And so I was a good sport, changed rooms, the Avs won and the rest is Stanley Cup history.

I think that trophy would look mighty nice at my house, don’t you?

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Rocky Mountain High

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Hi from the slopes of Snowmass, Colorado.  (And in case you don’t recognize us, that’s my brother Kenny and yours truly).

True, it’s an old picture.  No helmets.  And true, my hair has now turned gray and I have jettisoned my Descent ski suit.  But also true that Kenny has stayed exactly the same and so I’m using it.

We’ve just returned from a whirlwind visit to my adopted home town and it was a blast. We made the most of every glorious winter wonderland moment and I’m still high from the trip.

Cheech and Chong sidebar:  Not literally high, man. I did not avail myself of Colorado’s myriad legal pot shops.  My regular baseline reality is psychedelic enough.

Our brother/sister ski trip has long-standing roots.  It reaches back to the early 90’s when I first had a home in Snowmass.  Our spouses didn’t ski, and so every year we’d leave them behind and hit the chairlift.

We always had fun.  And this year’s outing was no exception.

To begin with, the weather was AWESOME  This is what I woke up to every morning.

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It was almost fifty and sunny every minute of every day.  Perfect Spring skiing conditions.

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The people were perfect, as well.  It was terrific seeing old friends- and making some new ones.

Our visit kicked off in style. We landed just in time to hit the best après-ski scene at one of my favorite places in Aspen- Chair 9 at The Little Nell.

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And then it was on to a fabulous dinner in their dining room.

Check it all out.

The next day it was time to hit the slopes.

Kenny was excited.  He had been skiing there over Christmas and was rarin’ to go.  I hadn’t been skiing in awhile.  I had a few concerns:

A. Would I remember how to ski?

B. Would I have enough muscle memory (and muscle) to pull it off?  After all, my main form of exercise these past few years has been typing.

C.  Would I remember how to work my boots?

D. Would my ski pants still fit?

E.  Would I still love it as much as I used to?

Happily the answers to my questions were:

A.  Yes, it came back pretty quickly.  I still stink.

B.  My muscles passed the memory test.  But they had a note from their tutor asking for extra time.

C.  Nope.   I forgot to push the button on the side that loosened the arch.  Luckily, a handy young guy at Aspen Sports showed me how.  He also marveled at my boots.  He had never seen a pair like them before.  That’s cause they’re probably older than he is.

D.  They were uncomfortably snug in the waist.  Diet starts today, folks.

E.  Yep.  I’m still hooked on the feeling.  For me, nothing beats a day on the slopes.  IMHO it’s the greatest family vacation money can buy.  All around me, I saw toddlers and parents, fathers and sons, husbands and wives and grandmothers and teenagers having a wonderful time together in the great outdoors.

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But it’s not all about skiing.  Even if you’re a never-ever, I still encourage you to get out to Colorado any time you can.

Whenever I gaze around at the majestic landscape, I am always awed.  I revel in every pine-scented moment that I’m there.  For me, the Colorado mountains are a very special, spiritual place.  I always feel the presence of Something Bigger every time I’m privileged to be out there.

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I’m thankful to be a very small part of it all.

I may not ski gracefully any more but my heart is always filled with grace.

So now a big “Thank You!” must go out to Kevin, Lynn and Courtney, Holly and Mike, Peter, Rod, Keith at Aspen Sports and Joni and Mark for making our trip so memorable. You guys know what you did.

(And if you can’t schedule in a quick trip, check out the clip below.  The movie was written and directed by Patrick Hasburgh- a former Aspen ski instructor.  It’s outrageous- but pretty darn accurate about the less spiritual side of Aspen skiing.)

See you on the slopes.

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Where’s The Beef?

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I’m proud to be a Midwesterner.  We’re friendly, honest and here in Chicago, boy do we know- and love- our steak.  And our steakhouses.

So forget your cholesterol count, pull up a chair and damn the expense.  Today we’re going to eat New York strip, filet and bone-in ribeye ’til the cows (don’t) come home.

And I’m going to need your help with this one, Dear Readers.  Please chime in and tell me your top go-to steak joints and your favorite cuts of the cow.  I’m pretty limited to petit filets and chopped steaks whenever I dine out.  So hit the Comments section if you’re so inclined.

And, so, let’s eat.

Of course I have to start at Gene and Georgetti’s.

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(I say “of course” because for twenty years, I was there at least two night a week.  It was my ex’s favorite joint and we were regulars.  It was the site of our second date and from then on, we did birthdays and general carousing there.)

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Located at 500 North Franklin street, G and G was founded in 1941 by Gene Michelotti and his partner, Alfredo (“Georgetti”) Federighi.  Gene died in 1989 but the restaurant stayed in the family.

We had the greatest waiter- Joe- who pitying my lack of enthusiasm for the cottage fries would actually bring me a baked potato that he had purchased at the store.  Today, however, even though Joe has finally retired you can still savor his eponymous famous “Chicken Joe,’ fried ravioli, terrific linguini with white clam sauce and, of course, their fabulous steaks.

The original has spawned a country cousin.  It’s out by O’Hare and I get good reports of it but nothing beats the original.

But after twenty years of eating at Gene and Georgetti’s, I was thrilled when Gibson’s opened.

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I was a regular there for many years and also had a gifted waiter- Mario- who sadly has also retired and headed for warmer climes.

I can’t really speak about their legendary steaks.  I’m sure that they are succulent and aged and tender and all that good stuff.

What I like at Gibson’s is their ribs.  Which Mario made even better (and way less messy) by having them pre-cut in the kitchen.  Good safety tip.

Strike that.  Make it “LOVE.”

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To my mind, they are the most scrumptious in Chicago but Gibson’s is much better known for their specially-aged beef, mountainous seafood towers and fabulous desserts.

And there is a lively bar scene.  But it’s a little out of my purview.  It always looks like the same old expense account gray-haired businessmen hitting on the same bored forty-ish divorcées. But hey, what do I know?

But if dining out in the middle of Rush Street’s “Viagra Triangle” doesn’t appeal, may I suggest Mastro’s?

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I order one thing here.  The petit filet mignon.  It has a yummy seasoning, and if you can avoid getting third degree burns on the nuclear hot sizzling platter they serve it on, it’s a treat for the palate.  Bon Appétit.  Btw, they chop one heck of a salad- the one with the shrimp on it.

Noise Alert:  Be aware.  Mastro’s has a live combo and their music is piped into the dining room EVERY night.  This I personally could live without.  I rather make beautiful music with my dinner partner.  But if you’re not noise adverse, this steakhouse is a great addition to the Chicago steakhouse landscape.

Now it’s on to Rosebud.

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I go to the one on Walton and it’s a bit of terrific.  I always order their chopped steak. Caveat Emptor.  It’s the size of a football and so I have yummy leftovers for at least two more dinners.  Great wedge salad and they do something to cauliflower that renders it silky and cheesy and pretty wonderful.

Char crust anyone?  I’ve loved that concept since the old Al Farber glory days.  When I simply have to have it, I throw caution to the winds and head for The Palm.

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It’s not as hip and fashionable as some of the aforementioned hot spots but it’s a reliable war horse with GREAT Thousand Island, a decent Italian red sauce flavor to many entrees and a fab little filet.  Sure, you’ll get those corny Chicago “celeb” caricatures on the walls and conventioneers having a blowout in the booths but I ignore both.  I’m strictly there for the steak and to hell with the scene.

We’ve barely scratched the medium rare surface.  There’s Capitol Grille, The Grill on the Alley, David Burke Primehouse, Chicago Cut, Maple & Ash– each with their own set of hungry devotees.

But for my money, nothing tops an evening at Joe’s.

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Swoon.  From the bread basket (I’m addicted to their cheesy wafer-thin lavash crackers) to the shrimp cocktail to the cole slaw to anything on their menu is scrumptious.  This Lettuce Entertain You joint is my number one pick when I’m in the mood- and the money- to chow down.

Okay, my cholesterol is through the roof and my wallet is bare.  Just time for one important Letter From Elba announcement.

This is my last post, Dear Readers until Sunday, March 6.  I’m heading out for a little winter R and R.  Three guesses what I’m doing.

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So see you in a couple of weeks.

And don’t worry.

Your steak was on me.

Now watch this guy.  He knows his onions.

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Forever in Blue Jeans

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That’s me.  Summer of 1980.  (I can tell because I’m still zaftig courtesy of Nick Ross’s baby weight.)

I’m posing in my Winnetka back yard proudly sporting a cowboy hat and more importantly…

My bleached blue jeans cut-offs.

Circa 1965.

Well I remember the day I excitedly washed my brand-new, full length pair of Levis with bleach in the washing machine down in our basement.

I was thrilled with the results.

My father- normally mild and tolerant- was livid.

“How could you purposely ruin a brand new pair of pants?” he fumed.  “That’s terrible.  You’re grounded!”***

*** (This was a fearsome punishment.  My brother Kenny and I referred to our house as “the locker room” because our goal was to spend as little time there as possible.  We tried to be home strictly to change clothes and catch some sleep.)

But I got where he was coming from.  Ten years old on the day of Black Friday, he had seen his entire savings account wiped out by the Crash of ’29.  The Depression had shaped him- and his entire generation- into careful savers.  Not wanton destroyers of property.

But as much as I hated doing time, I was more than willing to pay for my crime.  The end result was well worth it.

And today, some fifty years later, I still love me some blue jeans.

Whether they’re cropped, skinny, ripped, decorated with leather appliqués or plain, unless otherwise indicated, I wear them every day.

My jeans are the one piece of my wardrobe that I can not live without.

Maybe it’s because my derrière is so flat and no other pants fit me as well.

(My ex used to say that I only looked good coming, not going.  I got what he meant.)

Maybe it’s because blue denim just goes with everything.

Or maybe it’s because I’m still a teenager at heart and I refuse to wear those awful age-appropriate slacks.  The khakis or chinos or cords or whatever modest, self-respecting old ladies my age usually sport.

Ugh.  They may be appropriate but give me my jeans every time.

I am well aware that some of my fashionista girlfriends think my devotion to denim is regrettable.  But at least I know my son is okay with it.

Last year, when I was visiting him in Seattle, Nick and I went to a concert at our friend Lou Magor’s vaudeville theater, Kenyon Hall.

I had asked Nick about the dress code.

“This is Seattle, Dude.  You’re fine anywhere in jeans.”

Great.

But as we were walking up to our destination, I espied another couple my age coming to join us from the opposite direction.  They looked like this.

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I got worried that I was too casual for the venue.

“Gosh, Nick, do you think I should have dressed up a little more?”

He gave the man and woman a quick once-over.

“No, Dude, you’re fine.  Old people always wear shit like that.”

I laughed.  What a great- albeit let-handed- compliment.  They were, after all, my age, and yet my son didn’t want to put me in the old people’s fashion home just yet.

So this old gray mare still has a few more years to wear jeans, I hope.

BTW My father never lost his dislike of ladies in blue jeans but at ninety-three, he finally mellowed.  During a visit, he commented on it.

“You know, babe, usually I can’t stand women in blue jeans, but on you, they look good.”

I was touched.

“Thanks, Dad,” I said.  “But do you remember when you grounded me for bleaching a pair?”

“I do,” he laughed.  “I was mad, wasn’t I?”

Sweet memories.

I think of him every time I look at these.

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Sure I’ve still got ’em.

Sure I still wear ’em.

Sure wish my dad was here to ground me.

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Isn’t It Romantic?

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Happy Valentine’s Day, Dear Readers.  I’m feeling all sentimental today.  Maybe it’s because after a nine year hiatus from dating, I’m back in the saddle again.

I’ve been going out for awhile now, and although being asked to the “senior prom” has its pitfalls, it sure is fun when that telephone (or text message or email) rings.

(Or pings.)

So, in honor of St. Valentine, I hereby want to ask you all out for a date at the movies.

Romantic movies.

Sigh.

On this February 14, let us revisit some of the most terrific boy-girl moments in moviedom.

Auteur’s Note: I am well aware that I have a great many film aficionados amongst you.  I love that about you guys.  However, this list is strictly idiosyncratic.  I picked these ten flicks out of the hundreds I could have chosen because they all make my heart skip a beat every time I see them. Believe me, if time and space allowed, I could have put up many more clips.  If I’ve left out your personal favorite, please feel free to it in the Comments Section.  Thank you.

Now get out the popcorn- and the handkerchiefs.  Here we go.

There’s no rhyme or reason for this but Sydney Pollack’s soap opera, The Way We Were, gets me every time. Ugly duckling Jewish girl, Katie Morosky, falls for impossibly gorgeous gentile Hubbell Gardiner. Ok, maybe it’s my New Trier upbringing, but this was some love story.

Which brings me to…

Come on. You had to have a heart of stone not to love Love Story. Fabulous Ali MacGraw- likewise in love with a blonde boy- made me ok with being a brunette.

But here are two impossibly-beautiful brunettes who live out their own tragic Romeo and Juliet star-crossed romance. But in Kansas instead of Verona.

Splendor in the Grass makes me cry and long for a different ending every time I see it.

Let’s look at its Veronese forerunner, shall we?

If you are my age, this is THE version of Romeo and Juliet.  Grazie, Signor Zeferelli.

As long as our passports are stamped, let’s go to where they invented l’amour.

Was there anyone more gorgeous than Catherine Deneuve in The Umbrellas of Cherbourg? What a weeper!

The French must like to cry.  Regardez-vous.

I loved A Man and A Woman so much that I memorized the album. “Samba Saravah” was my favorite song that year.

But the French don’t have the romance market cornered. Every once in awhile, the Brits across the Channel come up with something truly special. Like this.

I adored Love, Actually. (Although now I can’t watch it any more because Life imitated Art way too much when Natasha Richardson died in a freak skiing accident. Poor Liam Neeson.)

Let’s move on to an oldie but a goodie.

If you aren’t familiar with I Know Where I’m Going, watch it as a Valentine’s Day treat with someone you love. Radiant Wendy Hiller is out to marry for money. But a gale- and a poor Scottish laird- stop her. It’s glorious.

But I bet you’ve all seen this one.

Four Weddings and a Funeral celebrates all kinds of love.  And the eulogy scene where one man extols the virtues of his dead male partner in a poem by A. E Houseman is one of the most beautiful tributes to love I’ve even seen anywhere. I defy you not to feel his love- and loss.

Ok.  I’ve run out of Kleenex.  So I’m going to end on my favorite romantic movie of ALL time.

Have a sweet Valentine’s Day.

And here’s looking at you, kids.

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Good Skate

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It’s that special time of year again.  Ice skating season.

And although I know that many of you are enjoying the sunshine far away from the chilly reach of Old Man Winter, I’d like you to take a moment and remember when…

When I was twelve, Friday winter nights and Sunday afternoons meant only one thing.

Ice-skating at the outdoor rink at the Wilmette Village Green.

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This set up, now long-gone, was a simple rink with a warming facility attached.  Inside you could rent skates or drink hot chocolate adrift with little marshmallows as was your want.

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(On a chilly day, nothing ever tasted better.  Before or since.)

I didn’t have to rent skates.  As memory serves, mine were a second-hand pair handed down to me from my glamorous, older sophisticated “courtesy” cousin, Suzie Petacque.

They were white, of course.  And they had blue and white yarn pom poms under the laces on the toes.

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My skating ensemble also included a very short brown velveteen skating skirt, a white sweater, a scarf, gloves*** and a white beret-like hat. I thought I looked adorable.

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***My gloves, albeit stylish, were not WARM, sadly.   One very cold outing, I chilled them so badly, that to this day, I can’t be in the slightest cold weather for five minutes before my hands start burning.

I needed to look my best because Friday night was “boy/girl” night at the rink.  For us socially-awkward Avoca seventh graders, this meant a chance to actually make contact with the opposite sex.

If you were lucky, some boy on whom you had an unrequited crush, would ask you to skate and do the circuit with you-  holding your gloved hand.

All to the lilting strains of music like this.

For a few magical minutes, you and your junior high Romeo were transported to wonderful place- filled with ice castles and hints of the glorious, romantic things-to-come.

(On Sunday afternoons, most of the boys reverted back to their usual adolescent high jinks like “crack the whip” and showing off their hockey stops.  Not quite as enchanting.)

But warm memories of gliding around à deux with Jeff Garrett (before he abandoned me for Shellie Piller, and later Kathy Vail) still come back to me whenever the weather turns frosty.

Sigh. Still sounds pretty good to me.

Tomorrow is Friday.

Now, where did I put those skates?

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Pride Goeth…

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The very dapper gentleman pictured above is my grandfather, Lewis Margolis.  I’m thinking about him because today- as you all know- is Super Bowl 50 Sunday.

And I’ve got a dog in the hunt.

Go Broncos!

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(Look who else is wearing orange.)

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But that’s as far as I’m going to go.  I’m very superstitious and I don’t want to jinx my team.

Or boast.

My grandfather taught me a good lesson about bragging and football.  This is the story he told me…

Many years ago, Lewis went down to the University of Illinois to watch his brother, Ralph, play on the football team.

Memorial Stadium in Champaign was built in 1923 as a tribute to the men and women of Illinois who gave their lives during World War I.

And it is huge.

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So Lou was among tens of thousands in the stadium that day watching his brother Ralph play for the Fighting Illini.  And Ralph was playing great.

So with quite natural brotherly pride, Lou turned to the man sitting right next to him and said, “See that guy?  Number 21?  He’s my brother, Ralph Margolis.”

And the guy sitting right next to him turned and said, “Oh yeah?  See that guy?  Number 77?  He’s my son.”

“Red Grange.”

‘Nuff said.

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Bon Voyage

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My father swore that when I was four years old, I announced in very high dudgeon, “You know, I have never been anywhere in my WHOLE life!”

That sounds like me.  Filled with insatiable wanderlust from the get-go.

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Thus, it was with trepidation akin to alarm that I realized that my passport was due to expire at the end of March. I would have to have it renewed ASAP.

ICYMI PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: Oops. I never knew that in many countries, passports that are expiring within three or six months are no longer valid. In many places, your passport is NOT good until the date of expiration.  So if your passport is up this year, be on the safe side and renew it now.  Click here for further official details.

The first thing you’ll need is a new photo.  This, to me, was a mitzvah.  My old passport picture was hideous.  Ten years ago, I was going- hair-wise- from this:

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To this:

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(Me, now.  But you get the idea.)

My passport photo caught me in transition.  And all you ladies out there will know what this means.  I looked like this:

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I pitied every poor official who had to look at that picture.

So last week, I happily dolled myself up and went over to my nearby FedEx to get snapped.

A very nice woman competently took charge of the shoot.

“Over here,” she said as she led me to the standard-approved white photographic background.  “Hair behind the ears, please.  It’s a new rule.  And no smiling.”

$14.95 later and my pre-filled-out form now had two new compliant photos attached.

FedEx couldn’t send my application to the passport agency in Philadelphia- they can’t mail to a post office box- but I knew that the UPS store in the same mini mall could.

A few minutes later, I was out their door with a tracking number and a feeling of relief as big as the whole outdoors.

Mission accomplished.

Not so fast, Smith.

It never occurred to me here in relatively-mild Chicago that I was sending my precious passport into the maw of that horrible blizzard that engulfed most of the East Coast last week.

Uh oh.

And sure enough, my scheduled date of delivery was the very Saturday that Snowzilla hit.

Jonas was one for the record books.  Twenty-eight inches of snow fell on the Philadelphia region.

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And of course my passport application didn’t get delivered on time.

The last tracking showed that it had arrived in Philadelphia on Monday afternoon and had left for its destination at 8:49 pm.

Then silence.

No emails, no texts.  Nothing.

Worriedly, I called the US Passport Agency.  A very helpful gentleman could not find my application but he had a suggestion. “Check with your bank.  The check might have cleared.”

Duh.

The very next day, it had. And then things got cooking.

Long story short, I got confirmation two days ago- one week from the time that my app had arrived- that my passport was processed and that my new one had been sent out.

It’s due to arrive sometime today.

(And I didn’t even ask for the expedited service.  Pretty darn efficient, I’d say.)

Hooray for the Red, White and Blue US Postal Service!

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There’s no place like home.

But when that new baby is in my hot little hands…

Look out!

Argentina and New Zealand, here I come.

I hope that four year old me would approve.

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